Thursday, December 26, 2013

Rejoice

by Kari Diane Pike

Christmas morning brought new firsts for our family. With no one home under the age of 16, we slept until 7:30 am. While our three youngest children still lined up youngest to oldest at the top of the stairs, they also lined up tallest to shortest.

The unwrapping of gifts revealed ties, books, irons, clothes and chocolate, but nary a toy - and we finished in 15 minutes. We even ate breakfast before 10:00 am. I felt a little bit lost.

Fortunately, late afternoon brought little fists rapping at the front door, more ripping through paper and giggles and shrieks of delight. I shouldn't have worried so much about not being able to spend money on more and bigger gifts for the grandchildren. I noticed that they all pulled on the tshirts I decorated the moment they unwrapped them. I heard their laughter echo through the house and saw their eyes sparkle when I asked if they wanted to decorate cookies. I nuzzled the downy head of my three-month-old grandson and drank in his sweet scent. We played games, started a 3,000 piece jigsaw puzzle, made toffee (Thank you, Christy!), sang Christmas carols, and watched cheesy Christmas movies. Oh, and we made our annual trek to the Phoenix zoo.

What a difference from the week before when all I could think about was how inadequate I felt and how miserable Christmas was going to be because all of our Christmas baubles and trimmings and stockings remained packed in boxes in a vast storage unit somewhere in Utah. My mother and one of my dearest friends were battling cancer, and when the news came that a dear friend and mentor had passed away, I  wanted to cancel Christmas altogether. How could I celebrate when others around me faced such horrible challenges?

Driving down Higley Road, after a trip to take my husband his forgotten cell phone (yet another irritation), I turned on the radio just in time to hear "what can I give Him, poor that I am?" What can I give Him? The words echoed in my mind. I felt poor in every way possible - spiritually, physically, mentally, emotionally. What can I give Him - poor that I am? A prayer formed in my heart and ever so quietly, the answer filled my soul.

Be happy.

Just be happy. Be grateful for life and enjoy the experience - bumps and mountains and cinders and all. Christ gave us everything -- even His own life so that I could live and love and learn and return to live with my Father in Heaven. The best way to be happy is to serve others and spread the happiness - like lighting a candle and then turning to my neighbor to light his. With each new candle, the light grows brighter and brighter.

"Fear not; for, behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy, which shall be to all people." Luke 2:10

So, instead of stressing about not having enough time to bake and decorate before Christmas, I learned that it's much more fun to share cooking experiences with my children and grandchildren. Playing at the park creates memories and strengthens bonds much stronger than even the most expensive toy.  I can take that joy and light with me to help strengthen my friends and loved ones as they go through their trials.

So as the new year approaches, my list of resolutions has been reduced to one word:

Rejoice.

Merry, merry Christmas, and may you create a magnificent new year!

Hugs~




8 comments:

  1. Lovely, Kari. I'm so sorry things have been so tough for you.

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    1. Thank you for you friendship and support Donna! I hope you have a fabulous new year! hugs~

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  2. What a sweet message. So much of it fits for me also. I get it. You are a darling, and I'm sorry for you loss, and happy for your little grandkids and cookie decorations. That's how life is--sad and happy.

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    1. Thank you Christy. Life is beautiful, isn't it! hugs~

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  3. Kari, so sorry about your mentor. As you would say ((hugs)). I can relate to the sleeping in, too. It's almost like the magc is gone where there's no Santa believer in the house. But, I do enjoy the quiet :)

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    1. Happy New Year, Susan! The quiet definitely has its advantages! Everyone needs a little quiet here and there. Thank you for your comments. hugs~

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  4. Thank you for being so open and candid about your Christmas. I appreciate your message. I had a bit of a Christmas like you last year. I realized as many of my children are now creating their own family traditions that if I wanted to be a part of the Christmas wonder, I needed to add new traditions myself. This year, I started the "Come to Grandma's for Christmas Dinner." It worked. My mother, sister and her family and all of my children except my son on a mission, attended and it was a wonderful couple of hours for all. My next post will be about the experience. I not only was surrounded by many loved ones, but felt the joy of Christmas in serving them a yummy meal.

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  5. Great idea, Cindy! Our trip to the zoo and a picnic on Christmas Eve have been a great tradition to bring everyone together. I'm trying to figure out ideas for some special activities we can do with the grandkids instead of "things". Two years ago we took some of them ice skating for the first time. I had a blast and the kids will always remember Grandma on ice skates. I'm looking forward to more stuff like that. Happy New Year!

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