When we first came to Memphis for our mission, I met Marguerite.
She comes to church each week, dripping in costume jewelry
and colorfully coordinated outfits.
We've been to her house several times—once for my husband to
unstick her bathroom window after painters had done some work for her. They had
painted the window shut. A putty knife and a little elbow grease corrected the
problem.
We took the young Elders over another time to get her patio
furniture out for the summer.
Her house has a musty smell laced with cologne. It's tidy,
but it's so cluttered with stuffed animals, pictures of her past life, and
tables set for a party with full service dinner and glass ware that she never
gives it a good cleaning.
She invited us over this past week because she needed help
with her Kindle. While we were on the phone, setting a time, she volunteered,
"I cain't be friends with most women."
"Why?" I asked.
"Because, if I talk to their husbands, the wives get jealous
and think I'm making a pass at their men."
I smile. She is so cute! I just love her.
We go to her house. She invites us in, and we sit on the
couch across from her collection of Christmas cards and ornaments while she
gets her Kindle.
She can't get it off D&C 84. She read a verse from that
section last week as part of the Relief Society lesson, and she got stuck
there.
We practice touching Moroni (softly) in LDS tools. She is
delighted to get back to the library. She laughs. Then we
practice finding her Sunday School lesson. When we turn to the Teachings of the
Presidents, she asks, "Now which prophet are we studying?
I tell her, "Joseph Fielding Smith."
She scrolls down to Joseph F. Smith. "Is this
right?"
I help her find Joseph Fielding Smith.
We practice changing from one screen to another, but she still
gets mixed up.
So I say, "If you don't know what to do, punch Moroni and
start over again."
We try this several times, and it works. She needs a simple
rule to help her begin again.
We laugh and have an enjoyable visit. I try to figure out
why admire her so very much.
*I come up with the fact that she is action oriented. The
world doesn't pass her by. She's part of it, and having a great time along the
way.
*She seems undaunted in her quest to join the electronic age.
Even though she gets confused and doesn't know what to do, she keeps going. Her
positive attitude is catching.
*Her youthful mind-set keeps her involved in life around her,
and gives her kind of a crazy flair that's fun.
*She has a strong testimony of the gospel since her conversion forty years ago. She drives herself to
the temple every week (a little scary) and motors to church every Sunday (also
a little scary).
*She makes things happen in her life, and that's a great
attitude to have..
I love these posts about the people you have met. Every person has a story and you do such a great job of bringing these people to life for us, even though we are thousands of miles away! hugs~
ReplyDeleteWhat's scary is this could be my mom, except for the clutter. Great post.
ReplyDeleteIt's much harder when it's a family member that you're involved with daily. For me this is just lost of fun because it's a friend.
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